Stop Pushing The Right Partner Away

Three tips to maintain a healthy relationship

Mulan
4 min readMay 29, 2021
Photo by Scott Broome on Unsplash

“If you find the right person, both of you will enjoy talking, eating, and sleeping together. Your happiness will last because living with the right person can turn a plain life into a fascinating one.”

I once overheard this in a group conversation and it really struck me.

Sounds reasonable but who is the right person for you?

Many people fall in love when they believe that Mr. or Ms. Right has come into their life. Both people feel perfectly matched.

Over time passion tends to fade. Mr. and Ms. Right are no longer Prince Charming or Snow-white anymore. Gradually, the thrilling love adventure becomes dull.

People start to question if their partners are the right persons or wonder why they have changed a lot.

Are we pushing the right partners away?

A couple who are friends of mine come from different countries. Their love is as romantic and beautiful as a fairy tale.

An adventurous backpacker happened to meet a pretty girl on the other half of the earth. They fell in love at first sight and believed that they were made for one another. After many…

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Mulan

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